Drunk Love – Song and Celebration

by Sarah on December 8, 2009

Half_Drunk_EntryExcuse the typos. And the grammatical errors. And the nonsensicalness. But I? Am drunk. Most definitely so.

Just wanted to impart two things tonite. In a silly way. And in a somewhat daring way. To keep the vibe of the challenge going.

1. Tonight, while being subjected to the Carrie Underwood special on television, my husband and I admitted to one another that we actually like the following song. Let me be clear: we are not country.

However, after divulging that I freely sing along when I hear it, Dan chimed in that he’ll give way to robust sing-a-long also – when in the car and no one is around, of course. (And? He is belting it out right now as he sits beside He Also drunk. Oh the support he gives his drunken blogger wife.)

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2. In a sweet and touching moment, and prefaced by a long web of topics we swam through in our inebriated state, Dan looked me in the eye and said, “I have to tell you this…”

I’ll leave you hanging for a moment to say that I think this was partially brought on by our discussion about Wolfie’s post, “Are you a Hottie?” Wolf and I had a few email exchanges after I read that post wherein she challenged me to get my man a little tipsy and ask him what he thought was hot about me. She assured me that even if I thought my hottie days were gone – three kids and sturdy adulthood in full force these days – that there was surely something he would say. That I would be surprised. And I was.

But he didn’t surprise me about our present life. It was instead about the past that he spoke. And it wasn’t about me or my body or my sexy, hottie traits. It was a moment. One moment in time. One moment that I still am trying to conjure up in my mind. Can I remember it for what it was? Do I see it only through Dan’s eyes? Do I imagine it for what I want it to be? Do I recreate it based on the person I think I was ten years ago?  I haven’t made up my mind. And all I know is this:

Dan turned to me. A serious look in his eye. Intent. Brave. Daring. And he told me of my most sexy moment. HIS most sexy moment. When I was most sexy. And made him feel most sexy. And I had absolutely no idea what he was going to say.

“We were on our way to the Mall. For some reason. I don’t know why. And we were taking a left hand turn into the Mall. And you climbed on top of me.”

He didn’t finish the story. Or give me the details. And I’ve invented the rest in my mind. Like a dream, or thoughts of my childhood, I’m not sure it’s real or imagined. I think we may have parked in a vacant area of the Mall parking lot. I’m sure we did things. Young, happy, brave things. I’m sure we laughed. I’m sure we smiled. But that’s pretty much all I am sure of about that moment.

But right now? Ask me about this moment. Ask we about this very time in my very pretty life. Ask we what I’m sure of now.

Dan sits beside me on the couch and chuckles about the title of this post. About the subject matter he casually glances. He doesn’t bat an eye that I post these things. That I share intimate details of our life with people that we don’t hardly know. Well, that he doesn’t know. And he plays songs. Lots of songs. Songs we love.

In Your Eyes – Peter Gabriel

I’ll Be There – The Jackson Five

A Wink and a Smile – Harry Connick, Jr.

Sea of Love – Del Shannon

And this.

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I’m sure of our love. And I’m sure that mixing cocktails and Christmas lights will always be a huge turn on for both of us. With or without Wolfie’s post and half-drunk challenges.

**Update: I’m hungover. And, yes, I did update this. Added a few things. Edited a few things. Not much though. Just for clarity. Spelling. Emphasis. You know. Basic, people. Let me say that I was not kidding you about my drunken state. And? I think I will be doing this all week. Well, you know. often. It was fun.

Consumed last night: one half glass of red wine (Dan stole the second half, bastard!), four good-sized Watermelon Vodkas with Seltzer, one TALL Bailey’s on the rock.

See that nifty little Half-Drunk entry button I put at the top of this post? Just made that. Grab it down from the sidebar and post it in your entry if you like. Just copy and paste that code right there and put it in your post (making sure to be on the HTML side of your writing, and the visual editor). Or don’t, it’s not a requirement. I just happen to like little buttons and things. And designing them is a fabulous way of ignoring the children while still feeling productive.

Remember, this is ALL in the spirit of the Half-Drunk Challenge. Have you posted your entry? Click here to enter…to win PRIZES PEOPLE! Get Loose! Get funky!

{ 25 comments… read them below or add one }

Ambrosia December 8, 2009 at 5:00 am

I love love love this!! Love is so wonderful, isn’t it?

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Sarah December 8, 2009 at 12:41 pm

‘Tis indeed.
Sigh.

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BigLittleWolf December 8, 2009 at 7:29 am

Perfect. HOT and romantic.

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Sarah December 8, 2009 at 12:42 pm

A good combo balance, eh?
Who’d of thunk it?

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Aidan Donnelley Rowley @ Ivy League Insecurities December 8, 2009 at 7:46 am

This post is so sweet and sexy. Both. They can indeed commingle. And don’t they? Love the music, the moments – in this present time and in the nooks of your past. Fantastic.

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Goldfish December 8, 2009 at 7:56 am

Oh, you. Tears in my eyes. Pretty life. What brought you to the now.

Not two days ago my husband reminded me of a moment not unlike your climbing-on-top moment. It was crazy and I was drunk at the time and I’m not drunk now so I won’t share it. I had forgotten. And for some silly reason it helped me remember who I am. Who we are.

I love how these posts are coming together to give me myself.

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Sarah December 8, 2009 at 11:45 am

“And for some silly reason…”

But I have to believe it’s not silly at all. It is why we have memory. Faulty, selective memory. Memories that pop in an out of our minds. Memories that only stay alive through someone ELSE’S memory. Like this time. Like this time with my now-husband. A memory about a time in our lives where we were nothing if not free of inhibition. Full of love. And daring. And sex. Yup, I said it.

“I love how these posts are coming together to give me myself.”

I love you for writing that. I love you for helping me to see the importance in the smallest and silliest of words.

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BigLittleWolf December 8, 2009 at 10:32 am

Just so you know – it’s 10am and I’m done mother duties (for the morning) and I’m … um… drinking coffee. THAT kind of coffee. Again.

You moms, momaloms, momalomsmom, AND the royal mother, momalomsmomsmom are all TERRIBLE influences. Thank God. I’ve been needing some bad influence in my life. No clue what will flow out of coffee-plus, today. Not feeling rhymish. LOVED the music this morning. Loved. (Coffee… )

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Sarah December 8, 2009 at 11:46 am

I wish so so so much that I could join you for some Coffee and Kahlua. Toss back a shot or two with lunch. Nap. Awaken. A bit of wine and then off to pick up the children.

Why do I have to work again?
And why do you live so far away?

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Nicki December 8, 2009 at 1:17 pm

BLW – as soon as I finish off editing this manuscript I have been reading for what seems like weeks I am drinking. I can’t get too drunk – like Sarah last night – as I have to be in good shape tomorrow morning. But at least there will be another adult in the house tonight so I can drink now.

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TheKitchenWitch December 8, 2009 at 11:24 am

Hey, good for you! You asked your husband what was HOT about you and he didn’t immediately reply “Hooters!”

Which I would have taken better if they were God-given gifts instead of purchased.

Fucker.

Love how your hubby loves you, baby.

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Sarah December 8, 2009 at 11:49 am

Hmmm. I think I left you some drunken comments last night? Or sent you drunken emails? Um, yes?

Oh well.
Dan and I were cracking the fuck UP over that post. CRACKING UP. DYING OF LAUGHTER. SNORTING VODKA OUT OUR NOSES.

Give.Me.More.

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becca December 8, 2009 at 11:24 am

Nope, you weren’t drunk enough. Not even one single typo. I looked. I loved this post. Loved the music. Loved the free-ness in your “voice”. And I think I love Dan. My husband reminds me of moments, um, every day hoping it will spur me on. Nope. No spurring going on. Instead I roll my eyes and remind him of the two little persons down the hall and my exhaustion. Ah yes, I am so romantic.

Hope you’re feeling ok today! :)

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Sarah December 8, 2009 at 11:51 am

Feeling blasted by a hangover. Worth it? Oh hell yeah. Do it again tonite? Oh, probably.

I’m telling you. Cocktails and Christmas Lights.

A new post title I should think.

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Kristen December 8, 2009 at 1:12 pm

Another thing I love about the women that I’ve met out here in the blogging world is the way in which they seem to be more open about their sexuality. (Previous sentence brought to you by the Sweeping Generalizations Department.) I love the honest, open reflections – like this wonderful post – on how sex is part of the locus of love. We spend so much time loving our children, and hopefully loving our work, but sex is an expression of the love that we reserve for our partners and it sets that relationship apart, sanctifies it in a way.

Lucky Sarah. Lucky Dan. Lucky readers. Thanks for sharing, friend.

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Nicki December 8, 2009 at 1:19 pm

Sarah – thanks for the note to #5. He is enjoying his few moments in the momlight – similar to a spotlight. You sound like you had a good time. I wrote some last night – not drunk but very horny after reading and talking to a friend. I am thinking drinking soon will happen. Just about 40 more pages to finish off at work and then I can commence. I am definitely drinking tomorrow night.

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Kelly December 8, 2009 at 2:13 pm

Look at all these hot mamas! Cocktails, christmas lights and condoms or we’ll have a whole slew of Momas and Aloms running around in nine months. ;)

And the thought of Dan belting out Carrie Underwood in the car is hilarious!

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BigLittleWolf December 8, 2009 at 2:22 pm

Kahlua and coffee again, but a very different result and now I need to hydrate hydrate hydrate and clean my face before my child gets home. You two are bad influences. And the damn mouse is making a mockery of me, scattering cheese and running about while I try to drink, write, blow my nose and occasionally scream. Please send more PB. And tylenol.

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Liz December 8, 2009 at 3:11 pm

Listen here, missy…I’m thinking it was gonna be hard for you to top your clitoris post…I mean, really, where do you go from there?!? (Don’t answer that…or wait, maybe you should…imagine the comments then…) Seriously, I sing to that Carrie Underwood song at the top of my lungs..AND I get mad when I do, too….like I’m ready to go scratch up Hubby’s truck and I’m all “Let me tell you what’s gonna happen if you ever cheat on me…” So that made me laugh. And I love, love, love that your husband got drunk with you and was just sitting there, participating. Tomorrow night will be our night…and who knows? Maybe I’ll finally let Hubby make an appearance…he’s been joking about co-authoring and turning the blog into “…but then WE had kids.” (Not a chance.)

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Heather of the EO December 8, 2009 at 9:10 pm

This just totally cracked me up. And it made me all swoony at the same time. just like drunk things should.

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BigLittleWolf December 8, 2009 at 10:23 pm

NOW is when I really need a drink… have spent the past HOURS (finally) moving content to my dot com (while chasing mouse-in-the-house – yes, still)… between those two I need a drink. Except I”m really a lightweight when it comes to alcohol, and I’m, um, abstaining tonight.

AND THANK GOODNESS for my new online friends who’ve helped move my content as of noonish, and none-too-soonish, but I”m not all the way there yet, so there may still be one more drunken post in me before the week is out. But it’s going to be perky. (I’ll drink in fine footwear and spritz my wrists with French perfume.)

Now Sarah – if you start drinking during the DAY, it’s all worn off by afternoon… oh yeah, that parenting / working thing. Well, it’s just a detail, right?

(Is momalomsmomsmom going to post something, perhaps with a little glass of porto?)

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Brittany at Mommy Words December 9, 2009 at 11:40 pm

Ah drunk love! I am loving this half drunk stuff. I wish I could be even a little drunk! I am linking up as soon as this baby is born! Shouldn;t take much to get half drunk at that point.

The post is great. The stories are great. Thanks!

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Sarah December 9, 2009 at 11:43 pm

Thanks for joining us. We have more daring conquests in the works, so be sure to check back!

When are you due???

Oh joyous birth!

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Ali December 10, 2009 at 8:37 pm

This was fun, sweet, daring, deep and honest…all at the same time. I love that your husband sat with you while you wrote. I love how unpredictable his response was, and equally how unpredictable your train of thought was in return. I doubt the quality of this post was simply a reflection of inebriation.

Thank you for the entry. Thank you for the contest. I honest-to-god have not done this much self-exploration in ages. I am addicted to reading 1/2 drunk posts and thinking. thinking. thinking.

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DeenaKay December 12, 2009 at 3:08 pm

Very cool post. I’m still reading them all and re-reading what I read last night because well, I was a bit tipsy! I can absorb it all much better whem my brain isn’t clouded with spirits!

I dont know what makes me hot. Probably a lot of things, I guess it’s all in the eye of the beholder. I know what makes my friend/partner hot. It’s not so much physical as much as it is the first few times when we were just starting to hang out and becoming friends and he trusted me enough to let me peek behind the curtain a little bit into the inner workings of his very gaurded life. He was vulnerable and in that moment, aside from how handsome and dashing I find him, it was that he let me in and that, I couldn’t resist! That and when he said I was like a unicorn! :-)

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