Make The Ordinary Come Alive

by Sarah on January 23, 2010

Do not ask your children
to strive for extraordinary lives.
Such striving may seem admirable,
but it is a way of foolishness.
Help them instead to find the wonder
and the marvel of an ordinary life.
Show them the joy of tasting
tomatoes, apples and pears.
Show them how to cry
when pets and people die.
Show them the infinite pleasure
in the touch of a hand.
And make the ordinary come alive for them.
The extraordinary will take care of itself.

From The Parent’s Tao Te Ching by William Martin

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Bre January 23, 2010 at 3:48 pm

<3 it.

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Linda January 23, 2010 at 5:52 pm

Teaching children to be empathetic – this is the job, I agree. How does it happen that they stop feeling separate from human suffering but feeling a part of the world?

Thanks for the wonderful quote.

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Kristen @ Motherese January 23, 2010 at 7:28 pm

Just lovely, S – and a reminder that I need to hear today. And every day. I don’t know this book, but I think I’d like to.

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Kelly January 24, 2010 at 12:16 am

“The wonderand the marvel of an ordinary life” — so simple, yet so beautiful and complicated.

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TheKitchenWitch January 24, 2010 at 2:54 pm

What a beautiful and important thing to remember!

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BigLittleWolf January 24, 2010 at 2:56 pm

This is lovely. Essentials.

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becca January 24, 2010 at 8:08 pm

Wow… love this. We so often strive for extraordinary, but really, the ordinary, the simplicity, the basics, are most important.

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Loukia February 3, 2010 at 2:03 pm

That is lovely.

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