Do not ask your children
to strive for extraordinary lives.
Such striving may seem admirable,
but it is a way of foolishness.
Help them instead to find the wonder
and the marvel of an ordinary life.
Show them the joy of tasting
tomatoes, apples and pears.
Show them how to cry
when pets and people die.
Show them the infinite pleasure
in the touch of a hand.
And make the ordinary come alive for them.
The extraordinary will take care of itself.
Make The Ordinary Come Alive
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<3 it.
Teaching children to be empathetic – this is the job, I agree. How does it happen that they stop feeling separate from human suffering but feeling a part of the world?
Thanks for the wonderful quote.
Twitter: barmitzvahzilla
Just lovely, S – and a reminder that I need to hear today. And every day. I don’t know this book, but I think I’d like to.
Twitter: Motherese
“The wonderand the marvel of an ordinary life” — so simple, yet so beautiful and complicated.
Twitter: millermix
What a beautiful and important thing to remember!
This is lovely. Essentials.
Twitter: BigLittleWolf
Wow… love this. We so often strive for extraordinary, but really, the ordinary, the simplicity, the basics, are most important.
Twitter: dramaformama
That is lovely.