Jen writes

July 23, 2010

Together (inevitably)

Where

I

Am

So

Are

They.

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Nicki writes

SOOOOOOOO true.

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Lee writes

I am really enjoying your blog. The posts take me back to times with little ones, which I thought would go on forever and ever and, some days, ever more. But, they did not. And I always want to remind mamas of little ones of that inevitability. Your blog is real and wonderful. Thank you.

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Jen replies

Thanks, Lee. Sometimes, it’s difficult to live in the moment when the moment is always loud and messy. But I know these little ones won’t be underfoot forever! Thanks for reading and for your support!

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Kimberly writes

Amen to that. Funny how that one fact of our existence can be the source of so much joy and, alternately, so much frustration.

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Jen replies

I think you just summed up motherhood, wise lady! Joy and frustration. Indeed!

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Mrs.Mayhem writes

Did I hear a groan afterward or was it my imagination? Wait – maybe it’s just me who’s looking for a teensy bit of space once in a while. Like when were grocery shopping, and I’m literally surrounded… or when I take a shower with a little face peering in the glass door and ordering me to hurry up…

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Jen replies

GROAN. Today I took a shower WITH the little face (and her body). And actually, it was better having her there and knowing she was safe. But I still had to listen for the other two, wrestling loudly in the other room. Will I ever have peace and quiet again? Will I be able to enjoy it?

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alita writes

I think you are describing my life.

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Eva @ Eva Evolving writes

Perfect minimalism.

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Rudri replies

I second Eva’s comment. So concise and yet conveys everything.

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Linda at Bar Mitzvahzilla writes

I like this, Jen. Though right now my daughter’s at Theater camp and my son doesn’t know it but he’s about to spend three miserable hours at our carpet store! But in my heart for sure!

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Jen replies

I look forward to days of camp. For all of us!

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Melissa writes

Always. Including in the bathroom. Inevitably.

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Jen replies

Oh, bathroom togetherness. Not my favorite.

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Claudia Schlottman writes

This is clever and touching all
at once. Thanks for your tiny
post, so meaningful to us all.

……….cj

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Jen replies

Thank you, Claudia, for your words
Kind and in rhythms of six
Making me pause. And smile, too.

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MidnightCafe writes

Ain’t that the truth? :)

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Lara writes

Perfect :) Sums it up in multiple meanings I think.

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Jen replies

Yes. The good and the bad of family life. Togetherness is wonderful. Except when it’s not!

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Liz @ Peace, Love & Guacamole writes

Yes, exactly!

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Kelly writes

Every minute of every single day.

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Jen replies

And, often, of every single night.

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becca writes

Flies? Bees? Annoying, competitive mommies? Matchbox cars underfoot?

Sorry, just listing the things that seem to always be where I am. Sigh.

I love this how YOU meant it however! xox

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Allison @ Alli 'n Son writes

There’s just never enough Aline time is there. Never. Enough.

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Jen replies

Never. And then, when I get a teeny bit, I feel guilty. What is THAT? (A curse. It’s a curse.)

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6512 and growing writes

Oh so true!
And not to be annoying but, OMG, we’ll miss that one day won’t we?

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Shawna writes

somedays this is the ONLY reason I go to the gym: so I can shower in silence.

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Maria writes

Amen, sister. Although there are days that I could run screaming, I wonder what kind of emptiness they will leave behind when they are no loger where I am…

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Maria replies

I mean, longer…

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