We have found that it’s just so hard to explain. And also that it’s just so hard to relate to other mothers who don’t have three. Actually, this is not true and I don’t want people to get the wrong idea. Not at all. The problem is not that we find it hard to relate to mothers with one or two kids, the problem is we find it hard for them to relate to us! I often wonder what it must be like for even larger families.

I love my friends with less than three kids. But there are so many challenges that simply appear once you’ve given birth to your third. And, the fact that both my sister and I had at least two of our three very close together has made it even more challenging. It sounds like you have your hands full over there and can relate to that!

Come back. Don’t feel isolated. Don’t feel alienated. Don’t feel alone. I have spent too many years feeling that same way. Not just because of the kids, but it’s certainly not any easier now. I can now firmly say that I have more acquaintances online that “get me” than I do in real life. And while it makes me sad I don’t have a raucous girl’s night out with a group of friends that “get me,” I am happy to at least be a part of this blogging community. Let’s face it, it’s often easier to find time with your laptop and twitter than it is for a Cosmo down at the martini bar with a girlfriend.

:)

It’s nice to know that there are others out there living through the daily challenges and chaos of 3. I look forward to reading your blog. :)